Wednesday, October 12, 2005

how much should we say?

so last night i was talking to pokey and he says "so i saw that you and mr. glass man were hitting it off, what's going on?" "What? mr. glass man was all over your cousin!!! what are you talking about?" According to Pokey, mr. glass man was putting the moves on me on Saturday. I didn't think so. i thought he was just being polite because that was first time we had met. i have heard about him but have never met the guy, he seems to be a nice dude. so anyway, pokey asked me if mr. glass man had told me that he had a girlfriend. i asked why he wanted to know. He tells me "because i think that there some things that should be said and some things that should not be mentioned and him having a girlfriend is definetly one of the things that he should have told you!" WHOA dude!!! Where that came from is beyond me but he went on to say "sonrisa, sometimes you can be so naive when it comes to men!!" so of course i started to get a little attitude and responded by saying "first of all i don't think it's any of your business who i talk to AND second of all I am not interested in mr. glass man so i don't care if he does or doesn't have a girlfriend!!" "ok i'm sorry but i just care about you and don't want you get hurt again" he tells me. pokey has suggested that i go to therapy but after last nights conversation i think he might be just projecting!! the dude totally freaked out on me and gave me a twenty minut lecture on how men really are and what they really want from women. i told him i appreciated him telling me all of this but that i was a grown woman and in knew what was good for me and what was not...ok so sometimes i make stupid mistakes but hey we all learn from our experiences, for instance i will never ever mix my wines again after lasts weeks experience...damn that was the nastiest hangover i have ever had!!! Anyway back to pokey, after that lecture i decided not to tell him about Mr. K. i think i'll keep him a secret i until i think something is actually happening betweent the two of us.

3 comments:

DCNats said...

So, I'm not even sure who Mr. Glass is, but thats besides that point... the point is that you learn from your lessons, entonces you don't therapy or a lecture on what men are really like.
Now, about the telling people issue: when I was single, I had a rule about not telling a lot of people about who I was dating unless it became serious...
Better to wait and see how things progress before subjecting yourself to a bunch of questions from pokey, or you family or whoever. But that's just my opinion...
however, you need to keep your blog friends updated no matter what! There can be no "wait and see" when it comes to us, we want the details!
and I was pretty sad about the Sox's loss last night... They're my adopted team of the playoffs :-(

sonrisa morena said...

of course i will keep you updated dcn AND i was also pretty bummed out last night too. I kept telling myself "sonrisa, it's only the first game, it's only the first game" i hope they win dcn, i really do want them to win!!! it would be cool for ozzie to have finally made it!!

*~Marie~* said...

Hey! Sounds like pokey likes you? and he sounds a little odd...doesn't know how to relate and stuff. So sad, I have a friend who always gives unsolicited advice...about men...and he likes me...I could be wrong though :) I often am!