Monday, November 07, 2005

i couldn't resist...

before i start writing about what i couldn't resist let me tell you about the wonderful weekend i had with the hola gang and my family.

I didn't do much on Friday, just stayed home watched 20/20 and then read my book...middlesex...that i need to finish by the 15th because that's when the book club meets. On saturday, i got up read some more...i'm really behind...and then prepared the pico de gallo. ms. j, aka ms. coordinator, was going to pick me up at 3:30. As usual she was late but that was ok with me because i read some more. We got to Mr. Parol Officer's at around 5:30, he lives all the way in egypt!!!ok he lives in romeoville but it feels like it's all the way in egypt!! it was really nice to see mr. parol officer and mrs. counselor!!! soon after Mr. motorcyle got there, we kept waiting for mr. officer to start eating but it was already late and we are all hungry so we decided to start without him. in the middle of dinner we started to feel guilty so we called mr. officer..."dude where are you?" turns out that the future suegra was in town so he wasn't able to make it. "why didn't you call us to let us know?" "cause it thought i was going to be able to get out of this but i couldn't"...todavia ni se casa y ya esta "trying to get out" !!! hehehehehe. once he hung up we got back to our dinner and we all decided that Mr. officer was definetly the next one to get married!! once we finished eating we started watching t.v. and drinking some wine. Scarface (sp?) was on so we watched it. Throughout the whole movie i tried to imate Al Pacino's "say hello to my little friend" but they would start laughing so i would loose my concentration so i never really would say the entire line. Mr. Parole officer and Mr. motorcycle did a very good imitation!! according to them it's a guy thing...what ever!!!!! i tried practicing all night but they kept telling me that i sounded like a girl, "heelllooooo? i am a girl!!!!!" MEN!!! i had a great time and i can't wait for our christmas dinner!!! on our way home i noticed that Mr. K had called earlier :-) that made me even more happy. i got home at around 1:30 am and my phone rings. it was mr. K calling to let me know that he was on his way home from a club. I was thinking "and i need to this because?" anyway, we had a good conversation and then said our good nights.

On sunday, i got up played with kachito and then headed down to Pilsen. I was meeting my parents and my 3 sisters at the Mexican Fine Arts Museum. As i was getting out the 18th st. train station i thought "this is were i will be getting off once cracked chancla opens her bookstore"....which will be pretty soon ;-) i made it to the Museum and i see my daddy and the first thing he tells me is "por hoy decide hacer un turista, haci que yo nose nada de chicago" i thought that was cute!! we were there for a couple of hours. Mom and Dad seemed to really have enjoyed the dia de los muertos exhibit!!! my older sister, whom i consider my second mom, was showing me the things the ofrendas had, she explained to me how some of the things were used. i knew most of it but she seemed to really be enjoying herself telling me all those things that i just let her. we all went to the little shop, my brother in law was having fun with the toys they had, "esto los vendian en el tiangis de cuitzeo". yeah they had a good time!! Afterwards we headed down to cafe ba ba rriba! boooy did we laugh at the restaurant!! My daddy kept doing the spanish accent throughout our entire stay at the restaurant. it was soo cute!! we got an english speaking person so my daddy and my mommy got to speak english. We ordered some sangria...i thought about mariposa and santiago ;-)... or as my daddy kept calling it all night "thangria de valenthia". I was so happy to see both my parents be so happy!! my daddy's b-day is coming up so we decided to sing him happy birthday while we were there "grathias, muchas grathias" was my daddy's response. we couldn't stop laughing!!! i got dropped off at my place at around 6. i started reading my book but i couldn't really concentrate so i decided to call Mr. K, "watcha doing?" "i bought some new computer gadgets so i'm trying to put them together, want to come over to help me out?" do I want to come over?!?!?! hasta la pregunta es necia!!! We worked on the computer thingies for a while but never got it to work so we stopped. Then we watched a movie...something with angelina jolie forgot the name of it...AND then...aah i couldn't resist!!!! i ended up spending the night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

12 comments:

Hector said...

you spent the night, and......? How do you feel? Now that the "what if" is over, is this still the path you want to take?

Santiago said...

ay sonrisita!! bueno esta bien. me gustas que te avientas con desenfreno. i'm glad you had a great night with your friends and family. although i am a little hurt you had sangria without me. te la perdono porque fue con tus padres. they do come first after all.

p.s. so much for bringing your pitching game and throwing heat.

sonrisa morena said...

hector, as i walked to work this morning i kept thinking "sonrisa, you should have just gone home!!!" but i didn't. what's done is done!! i really do like him alot!!! i'm debating if i should bring up the whole relationship conversation again...aaay i hate this!!! why must this be so complicated?!?!?

Santis we must go to ba ba rriba soon!! AND i wanted a homerun last night..is that soooo wrong?!?!?!?

Hector said...

Entonces ahora son "amigos con derechos"? Si qieres mas de esa relacion, insistele, y si no responde pues despidelo.

sonrisa morena said...

hector, i don't want to be friends with privileges!!! so i should have the conversation? hmm? damn me!! si lo despido tu crees que todavia podremos ser amigos? he is a really cool guy...aaahhh!! like i said before i hate this!!!

DCNats said...

hector is right, if you don't have "the talk" you risk being "amigos con derechos" and won't get the relationship you wanted.

Hector said...

Mija, you have to define this and quickly. El guey no se quiere comprometer, pero bien que te insiste no? Do you value him more as a friend or as a lover? If it's as a friend, and you know he's not mature enough for the relationship, then you have to say "Nunca jamas", but be prepared for months and even years of sexual tension. Keeping him around as a friend while you still have some of those lingering feelings will prevent you from ever moving on to another guy. You prepared for that?

sonrisa morena said...

hector, you make soooo much sense and i appreciate you being so honest...brutally honest :-(...i don't think he is mature enough to be in a relationship which is why i'm so upset at myself!!! i should have just gone home. I do like him alot and i do agree with you that having him around will only make things worse for me. that's it!! i'm staying single for the rest of my life!!!

Hector said...

I'm sorry if I was too brutal, but I've been "that guy" before and I look back and know that it was wrong of me and would'nt want anyone else to suffer that. Now that I have successfully convinced you that he is no good for you, I offer my services, after all I'm single too! jeje, just kidding. Don't give up, from experience I can tell you that when you least expect it, the perfect person will come along.

sonrisa morena said...

hmmm? intersante si si muy interesante hector...hehehehehe

DeCoMpOsEd said...

hector is right....porque todos los hombres somos cabrones... si se puede tener una amiga con derechos porque no... tienes que preguntarle ...e hacerlo pronto

sonrisa morena said...

hector, santiago, dcn and decomposed i would like to thank you guys for your advice. THANKS guys :-)i really do appreciate it you guys telling me what pigs guys can be!! excluding you guys of course..hehehehehe