tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13367152.post115161787427517436..comments2023-07-24T05:39:53.634-07:00Comments on sonrisa morena: drained...sonrisa morenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04738263903489914099noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13367152.post-1151890765456903482006-07-02T18:39:00.000-07:002006-07-02T18:39:00.000-07:00If Fluffman needs a therapist, show him where to g...If Fluffman needs a therapist, show him where to go...give him a list! <BR/><BR/>If he is not ready for a relationship because he has issues, then let him go...<BR/><BR/>It's important to remember that you are NOT his therapist!<BR/><BR/>And well, your sister needs a therapist also.<BR/><BR/>Unfortunately, Family and Drama go together... and ALL families have "drama" of one sort or another.<BR/><BR/>Un fuerte y caluroso abrazo.<BR/>Bendiciones.<BR/><BR/>Question...<BR/>If you were your own client,<BR/>what would you tell yourself?Cocohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06648699375453601098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13367152.post-1151705928514317212006-06-30T15:18:00.000-07:002006-06-30T15:18:00.000-07:00i tend to agree with santiago- you need to set the...i tend to agree with santiago- you need to set the terms now or it will continue that way... but you might be looking for an excuse too so be careful!<BR/>as far as you sister... sounds like she wants attention, but if she actually had a plan that's a bit scary. regardless, it's so wrong that she would try to put all that on you, that's so wrong.<BR/>stay strong.Joelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17842454859879493663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13367152.post-1151686640988939642006-06-30T09:57:00.000-07:002006-06-30T09:57:00.000-07:00Hey Sonrisa!I agree with CC that both sister and f...Hey Sonrisa!<BR/><BR/>I agree with CC that both sister and fluffer need a therapist who is not you.<BR/><BR/>I'm really torn reading your post, because when the whole fluffer-sister thing started I was wondering, "the sister is trying to tell her something but what is it?"<BR/><BR/>Now it's sounding more and more like the something she was trying to say was "HELP! I'm not secure in myself! I feel inferior to you! I can't hold it all together."<BR/><BR/>I read somewhere (was it here?) that you're supposed to pray for whoever is driving you crazy. So pray for your sister.<BR/><BR/>Fluffer: ok, i'm like the worst person to give advice on guys (grin): say, hey fluffer, man, you got a lot going on. Maybe you should start seeing a therapist so you can process. And then we can have more time together to just...?" Ida know. What do you think?Ktrionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208591005688480736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13367152.post-1151680872694645182006-06-30T08:21:00.000-07:002006-06-30T08:21:00.000-07:00i do not know about the relationship style you are...i do not know about the relationship style you are establishing with Fluffy. if you function as a therapist now, then the relationship will follow that course all the time. you set the rules of engagement very early on in the relationship. in terms of your sister, i really do not know what you should do. you are stuck between a rock and a hard place.Santiagohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06722108229239087465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13367152.post-1151618989216927152006-06-29T15:09:00.000-07:002006-06-29T15:09:00.000-07:00you and i have something in common. siblings that...you and i have something in common. siblings that are angry at something and taking it out on us. she needs a therapist that is not you. so does fluffy. start demanding that they treat you well. i used to like dressing up. then i don't know what happened...i discovered flip flops?Chanclita Divinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01256286747656172338noreply@blogger.com